When it dawns! February 21, 2007
Posted by aadith in Life.trackback
What do you do?? .. When you find out… What you really feel about the people you’ve spent a lot of time with lately? When you find out they aren’t the people you were thinking they would be… Do you just run? Do you avoid ‘em? Or do you fake it or move on?
What if it is not just your mistake? What if you needed them? What if they needed you? Is this what we mean by EQ? Would it really change my life if I chose one of the above options? Is there any option other than those I have spoken about?
What would I do? Well fake it… move on! That’s the thing I would want to do… that’s the thing I would!
That’s the reason I feel I am well equipped to face this life, but the trouble is – there are others who can do the same too. Today I stand vindicated that I am not alone! People who dislike me the most are the people that stand closest to me. It is not just me! Make no mistake I salute you for that (if you know who I am talking about) because it is two sided! We still require each other and being professionals that we are (rather are going to be) let us keep the face for a little more.
People have oft asked me if it doesn’t pinch my conscience, if it doesn’t make me feel filthy, if I did not want to give vent to those visceral feelings! They talk as though it was wrong to do that. As though it was sacrilegious! I put my head on the line today and say ‘NO’. I feel no pinch; I feel no need to give expression to anything.
But yes I would have liked to know if you disliked me… from YOU. But then you did not find out I dislike you from me either. No complaints.
Be Cool!
faking is not the ultimate solution…its an easy solution who form the don’t care conditions in one’s life…but when we’re talking about the closest people…it would not be a really good thing to do…
i agree that u cant fake to people who r close, but then are they really close if u even think of faking??
I never said one cannot fake to people who are very close … faking is an art to be mastered.
and secondly i am not complaining! and ‘close’ i meant those that stand close to me .. not those who are close to me!
if u cant trust them, donot bear with them.
let them go and open yourself for new people to enter you life
This is where we disagree. There are two ways of living life. Running from it .. or .. try and convert misery to success.
And take this down… To make it big you need intelligence and luck. But to make it REALLY big you need some indifference and tolerance!
running from it? i didnt suggest that. U r running from facing the people.. and maybe they too.. but my suggestion was to face them n met them know how u feel.
for the second statement.. i believe thats the way to live your professional life. but for a good social life, frankness n trust r important.
Point taken about social life. but tell me does anyone today have time to have a social life or even .. does anyone today HAVE a social life??
and I am not running from facing them .. if it were left to me they’d get it left right and center … but that doesn’t suit me so .. i keep quite!
by the way do you still want to remain under the assumed name?
anonymity is important.. what if i am one of the people whom u hate.. n according to u i hate u too.. so as u said, i am waiting for u to make the first move in saying u hate me..
i have a social life.. or at least i try to have a social life. if at ur age u stop believing in having a separate social life, by the time u turn thirty, d frustration might kill you..
as for facing the people, stating ur side of story is important. it doesnt matter whether they r also living the lie.
well if you would want me to do that i would need to know about you .. i can’t just tell any anonymous person i hate them, right???
and if you mean to say i should put down a list of all people i hate in the world … you just are asking me for too much isn’t that right too??? after all i do not believe in putting it out in the open for the world to see right???
well at my age… well that i agree, but that seems impossible!
alright then.. at least make a guess of who i am?
not trying..
i will not take (not make) a guess.. sorry.. but i do have a feeling i know who this is!
you see there are few who know abt the new blog .. only those on gtalk and then there are fewer still who have an airtel connection!
you might be a techie, but you’ve gone wrong thi time. widen your search parameters and then maybe..
Hi aadith just saw ur blog, see i don’t agree with your viewpoint towards life . Its no point living such a life of pretence , one should be his/her natural life. Whats gonna happen will happen, the most important thing is the journey . Sometimes people should be practical .
see my latest entry “Tryst with Destiny”
u’ll sure understand, if yu dont i iwll explain my view..
ciao
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Life is not important enough to think that hard, dude. That too, about trifle things. Get real and get a life.
Ha ha
hehe….i like wht paras has written… though wouldn’t be the one following it!
i strongly agree with what u say aadith…n m so sorry for those who havent been able to understand u!!!
maybe a few more experiences in life will help them b more practical n teach them how to deal with things smartly..til then we can only wait..
pretence is the weapon of cowards..be bold to express what u feel..remember “U are at nobody’s mercy”!!!